Suicide! It sounds such a terrible thought! But still some people think of committing it and making it a bitter reality for the loved ones who are left behind to carry the guilt and pain through out their life and live with it. Hold it!! Did I say some, or should I say all of us?
Anger utters reality out of our mouth. Am sure all will agree with me if I say that we all have some or the other time thought or event said out of anger “I guess my death is the only solution to it” or “this will come to an end with my death” and many more to mention. What I understand is our mind has a mechanic which is programmed to generate solutions to any problem that we encounter in our life. When it fails to find a solution to a problem and feels that its badly in need to come out of the situation he thinks of suicide coz it’s a great escape way to end the problem by killing the creator and the carrier of the problem and hence the end of the problem. It’s actually not the problem but the urgency to come out of the problem or helplessness of a person or guilt in oneself or lack of confidence to face or live with the problem or feeling of him/her being burden on someone.
If you read the last sentence of the above paragraph again you would understand that suicide is always considered as a last solution (A permanent solution to a temporary problem). It’s basically a take over of a certain situation on your psychological health. It could be to such an extent that it would not allow you to take a wise decision. That is the reason when we successfully come out of a situation and pass quite some time and when we recollect the incident we say “Now when I remember the way I reacted to that situation I feel like laughing over myself. I was so stupid to think like that”. One basically do not find a usual oneself reacting to a certain unmanageable situation because while you are dealing with it you only think about the problem and only negative side of it is brought under focus. Now, how is one helped to deal with a situation which is out of his/her control. One should always remember that he/she might not be always able to think wise when he/she is undergoing the situation. It’s always better to talk it out and take a third persons opinion over the problem and the solution you have thought for the same. The person with whom the views will be shared should be an unbiased person and should not have any connection with the problem. Learning more and more views with respect to a problem will help one to find a better solution to it rather than limiting the point of views to the solutions generated by sole sufferers mind.
3 comments:
i agree that there are a few people who have this madening thought of ending ones life. Well we do not know wat they are going through, some feel its a stupid thought or action but people do it. life makes us face some situation that one feels like there is no solution but as u rightly said we have to find the solution. life is presious. well i like wat u wrote dear keep up the goodwork.
Thanx Anna for expressing your views on the blog. Its my effort to explain the psychosomatic outlook towards suicide on a very generic platform. Hope the expressed outlook can help stressed one to deal with the unmanageable situation making very much manageable. Cheers!!
Nice Article Shree.
There is a phrase in Hindi "App Crore mein ek ho" has any one tried to analyze this statement biologically " You are 1 in crores of sperms who has fought and successfully matured a egg"
Life is all about going through problems and solutions.A beautiful phrase in Marathi " Tu ani me Karu shakte as hya jagat kahi nahi" it means " There is nothing in this world that if we come together can't do it".
When problems come in life, the best way is to ask someone who has witnessed the same problem and has come out of that or as ask some one who you think can really help.
There are situations in life which are deadlocks , our brain try to find out the reason why it has happened to me, was there any defect in me, did i do something wrong. The best way to deal with is to free our mind from such questions. If you think suicide is the best option to run away from problems then you will die as a loser and no one on this earth wanna die with a tag called "loser".No one will remember you, what the meaning of life you lived till date, Why if he/she has ditched you in life, get up in life make that person feel that losing you was the biggest mistake in life he/she committed.Be some body,Reach heights in your professional life.Think of the parents who gave you birth, think of the mother who carried you in her womb for nine months. Think of father who took care of you when you were small.Dear,whatever love our parents and brothers and sisters gave up is SUICIDE a respect for them,Who came in your life first, Obviously your parents.
If you say you want to commit suicide why are you creating problems for your parents.
This was case of your loved once leaving you and Suicidal thinking which crops up in life.
I agree that you loved that person very much, but the person who left you was not deserving love and affection you have for him/her.There's some 1 really very special waiting for you.
Fight with all problems, when you as a sperm won the race with crores of tiny sperms why loss on in life.
Life is precious, god has chosen you to witness the beauty of life.
There are problems apart from lose in love kinda.
There can be instances when the person in not able to take care of family and commits suicide.
Dear you should be the most happy person in life that you got respect to take responsibility of some one.Ups and down also come, when there are ups try to make arrangement that when there are downs it wont affect you very much.if you have not thought of it no issues,There are ample of things which can be done to achieve that thing.Money is there today and gone tomorrow, but if you try hard with full will, you will succeed.If you take example of Einstein, Bulb was one of the experiment he did among 3000 experiment.He dint gave up, he fought he had will to invent.
Life is not all about only happiness, if things dont work out the way we want then dont get disheartened, some 1 is expecting more from you becoz you have that capability to do it.
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