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Suicidal ideation and how to deal with it
How to Fight Suicidal Urges
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Traci McCaughey
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By Traci McCaughey, eHow User
Suicidal thoughts are incomprehensible to those who have never felt so depressed or forlorn that life is too much to handle anymore. The scariest part of suicide is that a truly suicidal person will typically not tell anyone about the plan so no one will interfere. The only person that can help that suicidal person is him or herself.
Are you one of these suicidal thinkers? Take a minute, and let's look at things from a different perspective.
Difficulty:
Challenging
Instructions
1.
How to fight suicidal urges
* 1
Remember that death is permanent. This is not a Hollywood film where, after the fact, you get to watch your friends feel guilty about treating you badly or see your family or loved ones miss you. Once you are dead, that is it.
* 2
Know that nothing is so bad that you cannot get through it. The only consistent thing in this world is change. As time goes on, everything changes. What is upsetting you now may be something that will be a distant memory in a year's time.
* 3
Don't look at suicide as a solution. There are other steps that you can take to solving your problem(s). Suicide is not one that will "fix" anything. You are actually leaving a huge mass of heartbreak and confusion behind you.
* 4
Never think that people are better if you are not there and that suicide is the way to help them. If you are not meant to be in someone's life, you do not need to kill yourself in order to do so. There are other simpler solutions such as not talking to that person or listening to that person and taking their word that they do need you in their life.
* 5
Don't use suicide as the answer to a failed romance. There are many "fish in the sea." And while you may think that you cannot go on without that one person loving you, wake up and realize that you can. You will go through a broken heart, but it will not last forever, and the right person will come along.
* 6
Go talk to someone that you trust or who is a confidential professional. If you go to a counselor and state that you are having suicidal thoughts, you are not going to be labeled as a freak and rushed off in a straight jacket. Again, this is not Hollywood, and you are not the star of "One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest." There is a plethora of people out there trained to help you. You are no less a person for talking about your depression.
* 7
Find the light in time. You will not always feel this way. Think about it. You are on the verge of throwing your life away permanently over something that one day will be just another day in your past.
* 8
Think of all the things that you will miss out on--all of the wonderful people that will come into your life that are anxious to meet you. Think about all of the experiences that are ahead of you that will be breathtaking.
* 9
Let death happen naturally, and grow stronger by overcoming these dark spells. Once you can get over the hurdles, maybe your experiences can be lessons for others going through your troubles, and you will inspire them to hang on another day simply because it may be better than the one before.
Depression – How to Handle Suicidal Thoughts
by Dr. Annette on July 9, 2008 · 58 comments
Chances are that if you’ve been depressed for awhile, or you’re experiencing ongoing hopelessness, some aspect of yourself has begun to drop not so subtle hints about checking out of life. You’ve probably even heard that voice beckoning you with the promise of no more pain, and tempting you with the lure of rest from your self-tormenting thoughts.
Is Suicide An Option?
Depression or hopelessness affects your thoughts in such a way that you may not see any solution to the problem. That’s because depression leads you to focus on failures, disappointments, and the negative side of the situation. Depression obscures any possibilities of happiness or a good outcome. Depression keeps you trapped in overwhelming pain, hopelessness, worthlessness and shame, and a sense of being powerlessness to change current conditions. Depression leads to believing, “there is no way out,” “there’s nothing I can do,” and, “it will never get better.”
When there is no access to joy, no escape from misery, and no hope of things ever changing, it is a natural progression to eventually consider suicide as an alternative. A shift happens when you stop praying to get better and start praying for an end to suffering. It’s not so much that you want to die, rather that you want a “real” change, an escape from an ongoing situation that seems impossible to deal with, or a way to regain a sense of being in control over distressing thoughts or feelings. However, suicide is such a taboo subject that hardly anyone tells us that it is OK to feel so bad that you would think about leaving life.
What To Do With Suicidal Thoughts
If you are having thoughts of suicide follow these three suggestions:
1. Talk with Someone
Instead of hiding suicidal thoughts, explore suicidal ideas in a manner that brings them outside of yourself. This means talking about your feelings with someone who can be caring, calm, non-judgmental, and non-confrontational. Don’t wait until things get better. Call someone such as a friend, counselor, priest, or suicide crisis center that is capable of listening with acceptance.
The best helpline in India is Aasra- 91-22-27546667/9 and it is a 24x7 hotline
Two excellent suicide hotline resources in the U.S. include:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
A 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service
1-800-273-TALK (8255)
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
National HopeLine
A 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service
1–800–442-4673
www.hopeline.com
2. Express Depression by Writing or Drawing
If talking with someone isn’t an action that you will take, then write extensively in a journal or on a pad of paper. Overcome your resistance to writing, rise above your desire to keep everything inside and write. Write often. Write big, messy, angry, hopeless words. Write about your problems, express your pent up feelings, describe your loneliness. Use dark colors if you want, cuss, scream, and express your despair. If you are feeling lethargic, then write about how that feels. Be “bad,” say all the things no one wants to hear, be ugly – be anything but the nice “feeling fine” person you show to the world. Avoid thinking you need to solve your problems when you write. Simply give expression to the thoughts trapped in your head. Write about how you are hurting, how your life sucks, how you can’t feel joy anywhere.
If you can’t write, grab a pencil, a handful of colored markers, or a box of Crayola crayons and draw pictures of how you feel. Your pictures aren’t supposed to be pretty, pleasing, or “good.” Instead, they allow you an important avenue of creative expression. What does depression look like to you?
3. Talk to Yourself in the Mirror
If talking to someone seems impossible, if writing or drawing seems overwhelming, then go to a mirror and speak your thoughts aloud. There’s no correct form of self-talk but you do want to look at yourself in the mirror, speak truth, and avoid sugar-coated affirmations. There’s no point in saying positive affirmations such as “I’m blissful, content, and serene,’” when in fact you’re contemplating ending your life. In addition, berating yourself for feeling depressed isn’t going to help either.
Instead, speak truth about your current situation, make a choice to continue living, and give yourself some much needed encouragement. You could say something like:
“I’m feeling depressed and suicidal and it’s okay to feel this way. A part of me wants to give up and it’s showing me how to end my life. But even though I’m feeling this way, I choose to go on with my life today. I don’t know how I’m going to overcome this depression, but I am doing the best I can. For right now, all I have to do is get through this hour. And I’m doing that by talking to myself.”
What’s most important is giving your suicidal thoughts a form of expression. Any form of expression – talking to another person, writing, drawing, or talking aloud to yourself in the mirror – gives you an opportunity to see your situation differently. We are much more able to cope with externalized expression than internalized thoughts.
Doesn’t Allowing Suicide As An Option Encourage It?
A conscious exploration of suicide, of an idea that is already circling in your head, doesn’t mean that you are encouraging this option. Instead, it opens up a dialog with something that you have already been considering.
Unexpressed, internalized suicidal thoughts tend to dwell on the process of suicide. Meaning thoughts are generally related to planning the act, thinking about when you would do it (today, tomorrow, next week), and the method you would use. Without expression, those types of thoughts gather momentum, growing bigger and stronger, until they obsessively swirl around in your head.
However, when you consciously express suicidal thoughts, you move beyond the best method to kill yourself. Rather then dwell on the final details of your demise, you actively explore your distress. You allow yourself to explore why suicide seems the best option, what problems it is supposed to solve, and how your choice might impact your evolution.
Giving expression to your thoughts doesn’t suddenly make everything better, but it does provide opportunity to unburden your troubles and ventilate your feelings. Talking to others, talking aloud to self, or writing allows you to move energy, feel a tiny, tiny (but much needed) sense of relief, and tap into a deeper reserves of creativity and problem solving. Expression means you are taking action and actively bringing new awareness to your situation from new angles and perspectives.
When you keep suicidal thoughts hidden, you become trapped with extremely limited choices. Those choices include:
1. Pretending suicidal thoughts aren’t present
2. Doing your best to fight against suicidal thoughts (even though what we fight continues to grow stronger every day)
3. Sleeping, eating, drinking, or medicating as a means to suppress suicidal thoughts
4. Give in to compulsive suicidal thoughts and end your life.
However, when you give yourself permission to explore suicide as an option, you bring those ideas out into the open. These thoughts are no longer frozen in your mind. Instead, expression gives your thoughts the freedom to evolve, and to move beyond noisy, chaotic clatter in your brain.
Allowing Death as an Option Allows Life as an Option
Once you give yourself permission and consciously consider suicide as an option, those thoughts become one option instead of the only option.
As you consciously contemplate your own death, you also contemplate the option of continuing with your life. Maybe for the first time ever you put aside your beliefs of hopelessness, you set aside your obligations to family and friends, and you set aside the belief of suicide being a sin. In your heart, you put yourself first and search for a reason to continue living.
When you explore the possibility of suicide, you open your mind to the most meaningful questions of life itself:
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* Do I wish to continue to live?
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* What would have to change for me to want to continue life?
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* Is it possible to live a life beyond fear and despair?
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* What would give meaning to my life?
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* What could I do today to give meaning to my life?
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* Even though there is no joy to be found right now, do I choose life for myself?
You may not have any answers to these questions, but it is most important that you ask them. Recognition of our ability to affect our own mortality can be a profound experience. When you strip away all ideas of sin, of shame, of obligation to anyone else other than you, would you give yourself life or death?
Many depressed people, when they allow themselves to consciously look at death as an option realize that there is deep important meaning in their depression. It’s not a lesson to be learned, it’s not a punishment, and it’s not a test. Depression is an indicator of a transition or evolution into something new.
Perhaps, this is one purpose of depression all along – to make a conscious choice about deciding to live at this stage in your evolution. As any depressed or hopeless person knows all too well, no higher being has yet come down from heaven to take your depression or suffering away. If a heavenly spirit isn’t going to save you, would you choose to save yourself?
Depression Freedom If you or someone you know is depressed, Depression Freedom is a powerful book that reveals new insights about the nature of depression… and how to move through it. Depression Freedom is a must read for anyone who has ever been depressed, everyone who struggles with deep depression or is even now feeling like there is no way out, their friends and family members, as well as counselors and therapists seeking practical, real life healing tools and an empowering message of hope and transcendence.
Suicidal Thoughts Overview
If you or someone you know is considering suicide and are unsure how to deal with it, call a suicide hotline, like 91- 022-27546667/9 , to get help.
Suicidal thoughts are troubling, especially when accompanied by depression, other mental illnesses, alcohol or substance abuse, or plans for suicide. This situation demands immediate evaluation. These thoughts may indicate the presence of a serious psychological disorder.
The critical distinction is between a person's thoughts regarding death and suicide and actually feeling suicidal. When doctors hear that someone wants to die, they refer to these thoughts as suicidal ideation and divide them into two categories.
* Suicidal ideation can be active and involve a current desire and plan to die.
* Suicidal ideation can be passive, involving a desire to die but without a plan to bring about one's death.
If a person has an actual desire to die (in either form of suicidal ideation), he or she must seek immediate medical attention.
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tracim
Traci McCaughey
I am a freelance writer, editor, and photographer.
I have many interests but what I enjoy most in life is simplicity and honesty.
By Traci McCaughey, eHow User
Suicidal thoughts are incomprehensible to those who have never felt so depressed or forlorn that life is too much to handle anymore. The scariest part of suicide is that a truly suicidal person will typically not tell anyone about the plan so no one will interfere. The only person that can help that suicidal person is him or herself.
Are you one of these suicidal thinkers? Take a minute, and let's look at things from a different perspective.
Difficulty:
Challenging
Instructions
1.
How to fight suicidal urges
* 1
Remember that death is permanent. This is not a Hollywood film where, after the fact, you get to watch your friends feel guilty about treating you badly or see your family or loved ones miss you. Once you are dead, that is it.
* 2
Know that nothing is so bad that you cannot get through it. The only consistent thing in this world is change. As time goes on, everything changes. What is upsetting you now may be something that will be a distant memory in a year's time.
* 3
Don't look at suicide as a solution. There are other steps that you can take to solving your problem(s). Suicide is not one that will "fix" anything. You are actually leaving a huge mass of heartbreak and confusion behind you.
* 4
Never think that people are better if you are not there and that suicide is the way to help them. If you are not meant to be in someone's life, you do not need to kill yourself in order to do so. There are other simpler solutions such as not talking to that person or listening to that person and taking their word that they do need you in their life.
* 5
Don't use suicide as the answer to a failed romance. There are many "fish in the sea." And while you may think that you cannot go on without that one person loving you, wake up and realize that you can. You will go through a broken heart, but it will not last forever, and the right person will come along.
* 6
Go talk to someone that you trust or who is a confidential professional. If you go to a counselor and state that you are having suicidal thoughts, you are not going to be labeled as a freak and rushed off in a straight jacket. Again, this is not Hollywood, and you are not the star of "One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest." There is a plethora of people out there trained to help you. You are no less a person for talking about your depression.
* 7
Find the light in time. You will not always feel this way. Think about it. You are on the verge of throwing your life away permanently over something that one day will be just another day in your past.
* 8
Think of all the things that you will miss out on--all of the wonderful people that will come into your life that are anxious to meet you. Think about all of the experiences that are ahead of you that will be breathtaking.
* 9
Let death happen naturally, and grow stronger by overcoming these dark spells. Once you can get over the hurdles, maybe your experiences can be lessons for others going through your troubles, and you will inspire them to hang on another day simply because it may be better than the one before.
Depression – How to Handle Suicidal Thoughts
by Dr. Annette on July 9, 2008 · 58 comments
Chances are that if you’ve been depressed for awhile, or you’re experiencing ongoing hopelessness, some aspect of yourself has begun to drop not so subtle hints about checking out of life. You’ve probably even heard that voice beckoning you with the promise of no more pain, and tempting you with the lure of rest from your self-tormenting thoughts.
Is Suicide An Option?
Depression or hopelessness affects your thoughts in such a way that you may not see any solution to the problem. That’s because depression leads you to focus on failures, disappointments, and the negative side of the situation. Depression obscures any possibilities of happiness or a good outcome. Depression keeps you trapped in overwhelming pain, hopelessness, worthlessness and shame, and a sense of being powerlessness to change current conditions. Depression leads to believing, “there is no way out,” “there’s nothing I can do,” and, “it will never get better.”
When there is no access to joy, no escape from misery, and no hope of things ever changing, it is a natural progression to eventually consider suicide as an alternative. A shift happens when you stop praying to get better and start praying for an end to suffering. It’s not so much that you want to die, rather that you want a “real” change, an escape from an ongoing situation that seems impossible to deal with, or a way to regain a sense of being in control over distressing thoughts or feelings. However, suicide is such a taboo subject that hardly anyone tells us that it is OK to feel so bad that you would think about leaving life.
What To Do With Suicidal Thoughts
If you are having thoughts of suicide follow these three suggestions:
1. Talk with Someone
Instead of hiding suicidal thoughts, explore suicidal ideas in a manner that brings them outside of yourself. This means talking about your feelings with someone who can be caring, calm, non-judgmental, and non-confrontational. Don’t wait until things get better. Call someone such as a friend, counselor, priest, or suicide crisis center that is capable of listening with acceptance.
The best helpline in India is Aasra- 91-22-27546667/9 and it is a 24x7 hotline
Two excellent suicide hotline resources in the U.S. include:
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
A 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service
1-800-273-TALK (8255)
www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org
National HopeLine
A 24-hour, toll-free suicide prevention service
1–800–442-4673
www.hopeline.com
2. Express Depression by Writing or Drawing
If talking with someone isn’t an action that you will take, then write extensively in a journal or on a pad of paper. Overcome your resistance to writing, rise above your desire to keep everything inside and write. Write often. Write big, messy, angry, hopeless words. Write about your problems, express your pent up feelings, describe your loneliness. Use dark colors if you want, cuss, scream, and express your despair. If you are feeling lethargic, then write about how that feels. Be “bad,” say all the things no one wants to hear, be ugly – be anything but the nice “feeling fine” person you show to the world. Avoid thinking you need to solve your problems when you write. Simply give expression to the thoughts trapped in your head. Write about how you are hurting, how your life sucks, how you can’t feel joy anywhere.
If you can’t write, grab a pencil, a handful of colored markers, or a box of Crayola crayons and draw pictures of how you feel. Your pictures aren’t supposed to be pretty, pleasing, or “good.” Instead, they allow you an important avenue of creative expression. What does depression look like to you?
3. Talk to Yourself in the Mirror
If talking to someone seems impossible, if writing or drawing seems overwhelming, then go to a mirror and speak your thoughts aloud. There’s no correct form of self-talk but you do want to look at yourself in the mirror, speak truth, and avoid sugar-coated affirmations. There’s no point in saying positive affirmations such as “I’m blissful, content, and serene,’” when in fact you’re contemplating ending your life. In addition, berating yourself for feeling depressed isn’t going to help either.
Instead, speak truth about your current situation, make a choice to continue living, and give yourself some much needed encouragement. You could say something like:
“I’m feeling depressed and suicidal and it’s okay to feel this way. A part of me wants to give up and it’s showing me how to end my life. But even though I’m feeling this way, I choose to go on with my life today. I don’t know how I’m going to overcome this depression, but I am doing the best I can. For right now, all I have to do is get through this hour. And I’m doing that by talking to myself.”
What’s most important is giving your suicidal thoughts a form of expression. Any form of expression – talking to another person, writing, drawing, or talking aloud to yourself in the mirror – gives you an opportunity to see your situation differently. We are much more able to cope with externalized expression than internalized thoughts.
Doesn’t Allowing Suicide As An Option Encourage It?
A conscious exploration of suicide, of an idea that is already circling in your head, doesn’t mean that you are encouraging this option. Instead, it opens up a dialog with something that you have already been considering.
Unexpressed, internalized suicidal thoughts tend to dwell on the process of suicide. Meaning thoughts are generally related to planning the act, thinking about when you would do it (today, tomorrow, next week), and the method you would use. Without expression, those types of thoughts gather momentum, growing bigger and stronger, until they obsessively swirl around in your head.
However, when you consciously express suicidal thoughts, you move beyond the best method to kill yourself. Rather then dwell on the final details of your demise, you actively explore your distress. You allow yourself to explore why suicide seems the best option, what problems it is supposed to solve, and how your choice might impact your evolution.
Giving expression to your thoughts doesn’t suddenly make everything better, but it does provide opportunity to unburden your troubles and ventilate your feelings. Talking to others, talking aloud to self, or writing allows you to move energy, feel a tiny, tiny (but much needed) sense of relief, and tap into a deeper reserves of creativity and problem solving. Expression means you are taking action and actively bringing new awareness to your situation from new angles and perspectives.
When you keep suicidal thoughts hidden, you become trapped with extremely limited choices. Those choices include:
1. Pretending suicidal thoughts aren’t present
2. Doing your best to fight against suicidal thoughts (even though what we fight continues to grow stronger every day)
3. Sleeping, eating, drinking, or medicating as a means to suppress suicidal thoughts
4. Give in to compulsive suicidal thoughts and end your life.
However, when you give yourself permission to explore suicide as an option, you bring those ideas out into the open. These thoughts are no longer frozen in your mind. Instead, expression gives your thoughts the freedom to evolve, and to move beyond noisy, chaotic clatter in your brain.
Allowing Death as an Option Allows Life as an Option
Once you give yourself permission and consciously consider suicide as an option, those thoughts become one option instead of the only option.
As you consciously contemplate your own death, you also contemplate the option of continuing with your life. Maybe for the first time ever you put aside your beliefs of hopelessness, you set aside your obligations to family and friends, and you set aside the belief of suicide being a sin. In your heart, you put yourself first and search for a reason to continue living.
When you explore the possibility of suicide, you open your mind to the most meaningful questions of life itself:
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* Do I wish to continue to live?
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* What would have to change for me to want to continue life?
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* Is it possible to live a life beyond fear and despair?
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* What would give meaning to my life?
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* What could I do today to give meaning to my life?
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* Even though there is no joy to be found right now, do I choose life for myself?
You may not have any answers to these questions, but it is most important that you ask them. Recognition of our ability to affect our own mortality can be a profound experience. When you strip away all ideas of sin, of shame, of obligation to anyone else other than you, would you give yourself life or death?
Many depressed people, when they allow themselves to consciously look at death as an option realize that there is deep important meaning in their depression. It’s not a lesson to be learned, it’s not a punishment, and it’s not a test. Depression is an indicator of a transition or evolution into something new.
Perhaps, this is one purpose of depression all along – to make a conscious choice about deciding to live at this stage in your evolution. As any depressed or hopeless person knows all too well, no higher being has yet come down from heaven to take your depression or suffering away. If a heavenly spirit isn’t going to save you, would you choose to save yourself?
Depression Freedom If you or someone you know is depressed, Depression Freedom is a powerful book that reveals new insights about the nature of depression… and how to move through it. Depression Freedom is a must read for anyone who has ever been depressed, everyone who struggles with deep depression or is even now feeling like there is no way out, their friends and family members, as well as counselors and therapists seeking practical, real life healing tools and an empowering message of hope and transcendence.
Suicidal Thoughts Overview
If you or someone you know is considering suicide and are unsure how to deal with it, call a suicide hotline, like 91- 022-27546667/9 , to get help.
Suicidal thoughts are troubling, especially when accompanied by depression, other mental illnesses, alcohol or substance abuse, or plans for suicide. This situation demands immediate evaluation. These thoughts may indicate the presence of a serious psychological disorder.
The critical distinction is between a person's thoughts regarding death and suicide and actually feeling suicidal. When doctors hear that someone wants to die, they refer to these thoughts as suicidal ideation and divide them into two categories.
* Suicidal ideation can be active and involve a current desire and plan to die.
* Suicidal ideation can be passive, involving a desire to die but without a plan to bring about one's death.
If a person has an actual desire to die (in either form of suicidal ideation), he or she must seek immediate medical attention.
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Dear Mr Thomas,
Thank you for your swift reply! I was very happy to read that you would be interested in cooperating with us and giving volunteers the chance for gaining valuable intercultural experiences by supporting your project. Therefore, let me give you some more information about our program.
With our program we offer volunteers (minimum age 18 years) the opportunity to support charitable projects in different countries. We currently cooperate with projects in Tanzania, Kenya, South Africa and on the Phillipines. Volunteer applicants can decide themselves when they would like to start, how long they would like to work and live in a project (4 weeks up to several months), and the costs for accommodation and food will have to be paid by the volunteers themselves.
Our most important request is that the volunteers have to be kept safe.
1) Accommodation: The volunteers have to be accommodated in a permanent house, this could either be in a residential house or in a host family. It’s important that the accommodation is provided with an own bed for each volunteer.
2) Supervisor: It’s essential that you have an English-speaking supervisor, who is in charge of the volunteers. This person should be able to assist if there are any problems and be in constantly contact with the young workers.
3) Food: 3 daily meals should be provided for the volunteers.
4) Bank account: Your project is advised to have a bank account for a donation for food and accommodation.
5) Transportation: It’s important that you guarantee a pick-up and drop-off from the nearest airport.
If we build up a cooperation with you, we will take your project into our portfolio and people interested in volunteering can apply. We will handle the application process and will get the volunteers prepared for their new experience. Of course, we will send you their CV, a photo and their motivation letter so that you can give the definite acceptance to an applicant. If you have any special requirements, we can definitely take them into consideration! What we require from volunteers is a heart to serve, open-mindedness for people, cultures and different ways of life, sociability, a sense of responsibility... Some of them already have references of social work, e.g. having done an internship in a nursery. Many of our volunteers have just finished school (at the age of 18 up to 20 years), and want to experience something new before studying at university. But we also have older volunteers who have already worked and want to start something completely new.
On your website - which is really nice and well done, by the way - you provide many very useful information! What we need to know is the amount of the donation which will have to be paid to cover your expenses for board and lodging. Could you also give us a note of your terms and conditions to the partnership? This should include the field of work, the minimum and maximum duration of a stay, where the volunteers can sleep, the contact person and which airport is the nearest, etc.
Let me also know, if you have any questions!
I am looking forward to hearing from you soon!
Thank you so much and warm regards,
Isabelle
KulturLife
Gemeinnützige Gesellschaft für Kulturaustausch mbH
Max-Giese-Straße 22 D - 24103 Kiel
isabelle@kultur-life.de
www.kultur-life.de
Handelsregister Kiel, HRB 4296 KI
Geschäftsführer: Martin Elbeshausen
My office hours:
Monday-Friday 10 a.m.-5 p.m.
previous email and response
Von: johnsont307@rediffmail.com [mailto:johnsont307@rediffmail.com]
Gesendet: Donnerstag, 3. März 2011 19:46
An: Isabelle Bartz von KulturLife
Betreff: Re: Volunteer Cooperation
Isabelle we would be interested. Lets think of the modalities...
Johnson Thomas(00-9820466726)
Director
Aasra
www.aasra.info
aasrasuicideprevention.blogspot.com
On Wed, 02 Mar 2011 01:35:07 +0530 "Isabelle Bartz von KulturLife" wrote
>
Dearladies andgentlemen,
let me send you some warm greetings from Germany.
My name is Isabelle Bartz and I am working for KulturLife a non-profit organization focussing on intercultural exchange. For almost 15 years now, we have been organizing diverse exchange programs for young people to give them an understanding about different cultures and ways of life and to enhance international cooperation. Our volunteer department is currently growing, as there is a high interest among young people getting involved in supporting charitable projects abroad. For this reason, we are looking for new partner projects. Researching on the Internet, I took notice of your project and I reallyappreciate your work. I consider your organization definitely worth being supported by our motivated volunteers! Therefore, we are very interested in building upacooperation withyour organisation and send volunteers (staying between a few weeks up to several months)as a supportto your projects.
Please let us know if you are interested in a partnership and give us a reply, so we can talk about further details.
I am looking forward to hearing from you soon!
Thank you and kind regards,
Isabelle Bartz
Isabelle Bartz
KulturLife
Gemeinnützige Gesellschaft für Kulturaustausch mbH
>Max-Giese-StraßeD - 24103 Kiel
>Isabellesusanne@kultur-life.de" target=_new>@kultur-life.de
www.kultur-life.de
>Handelsregister Kiel, HRB 4296 KI
>Geschäftsführer: Martin Elbeshausen
My office hours:
Tuesday 11 a.m.-6 p.m. and Wednesday-Friday10 a.m.-5 p.m.
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Dear Mr Thomas,
Thank you for your swift reply! I was very happy to read that you would be interested in cooperating with us and giving volunteers the chance for gaining valuable intercultural experiences by supporting your project. Therefore, let me give you some more information about our program.
With our program we offer volunteers (minimum age 18 years) the opportunity to support charitable projects in different countries. We currently cooperate with projects in Tanzania, Kenya, South Africa and on the Phillipines. Volunteer applicants can decide themselves when they would like to start, how long they would like to work and live in a project (4 weeks up to several months), and the costs for accommodation and food will have to be paid by the volunteers themselves.
Our most important request is that the volunteers have to be kept safe.
1) Accommodation: The volunteers have to be accommodated in a permanent house, this could either be in a residential house or in a host family. It’s important that the accommodation is provided with an own bed for each volunteer.
2) Supervisor: It’s essential that you have an English-speaking supervisor, who is in charge of the volunteers. This person should be able to assist if there are any problems and be in constantly contact with the young workers.
3) Food: 3 daily meals should be provided for the volunteers.
4) Bank account: Your project is advised to have a bank account for a donation for food and accommodation.
5) Transportation: It’s important that you guarantee a pick-up and drop-off from the nearest airport.
If we build up a cooperation with you, we will take your project into our portfolio and people interested in volunteering can apply. We will handle the application process and will get the volunteers prepared for their new experience. Of course, we will send you their CV, a photo and their motivation letter so that you can give the definite acceptance to an applicant. If you have any special requirements, we can definitely take them into consideration! What we require from volunteers is a heart to serve, open-mindedness for people, cultures and different ways of life, sociability, a sense of responsibility... Some of them already have references of social work, e.g. having done an internship in a nursery. Many of our volunteers have just finished school (at the age of 18 up to 20 years), and want to experience something new before studying at university. But we also have older volunteers who have already worked and want to start something completely new.
On your website - which is really nice and well done, by the way - you provide many very useful information! What we need to know is the amount of the donation which will have to be paid to cover your expenses for board and lodging. Could you also give us a note of your terms and conditions to the partnership? This should include the field of work, the minimum and maximum duration of a stay, where the volunteers can sleep, the contact person and which airport is the nearest, etc.
Let me also know, if you have any questions!
I am looking forward to hearing from you soon!
Thank you so much and warm regards,
Isabelle
KulturLife
Gemeinnützige Gesellschaft für Kulturaustausch mbH
Max-Giese-Straße 22 D - 24103 Kiel
isabelle@kultur-life.de
www.kultur-life.de
Handelsregister Kiel, HRB 4296 KI
Geschäftsführer: Martin Elbeshausen
My office hours:
Monday-Friday 10 a.m.-5 p.m.
previous email and response
Von: johnsont307@rediffmail.com [mailto:johnsont307@rediffmail.com]
Gesendet: Donnerstag, 3. März 2011 19:46
An: Isabelle Bartz von KulturLife
Betreff: Re: Volunteer Cooperation
Isabelle we would be interested. Lets think of the modalities...
Johnson Thomas(00-9820466726)
Director
Aasra
www.aasra.info
aasrasuicideprevention.blogspot.com
On Wed, 02 Mar 2011 01:35:07 +0530 "Isabelle Bartz von KulturLife"
>
Dearladies andgentlemen,
let me send you some warm greetings from Germany.
My name is Isabelle Bartz and I am working for KulturLife a non-profit organization focussing on intercultural exchange. For almost 15 years now, we have been organizing diverse exchange programs for young people to give them an understanding about different cultures and ways of life and to enhance international cooperation. Our volunteer department is currently growing, as there is a high interest among young people getting involved in supporting charitable projects abroad. For this reason, we are looking for new partner projects. Researching on the Internet, I took notice of your project and I reallyappreciate your work. I consider your organization definitely worth being supported by our motivated volunteers! Therefore, we are very interested in building upacooperation withyour organisation and send volunteers (staying between a few weeks up to several months)as a supportto your projects.
Please let us know if you are interested in a partnership and give us a reply, so we can talk about further details.
I am looking forward to hearing from you soon!
Thank you and kind regards,
Isabelle Bartz
Isabelle Bartz
KulturLife
Gemeinnützige Gesellschaft für Kulturaustausch mbH
>Max-Giese-StraßeD - 24103 Kiel
>Isabellesusanne@kultur-life.de" target=_new>@kultur-life.de
www.kultur-life.de
>Handelsregister Kiel, HRB 4296 KI
>Geschäftsführer: Martin Elbeshausen
My office hours:
Tuesday 11 a.m.-6 p.m. and Wednesday-Friday10 a.m.-5 p.m.
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Re: Invitation for programs commemorating 'World Suicide prevention Day'
Dear Sir/Madam,
Aasra is a crisis intervention center for the lonely, distressed and suicidal. Aasra functions as a unit of Befrienders India / Samaritans and is registered as a Public Charity under the Bombay Charity Act, 1960(Registration No. E 2047). Befrienders India/Samaritans is recognised by The United Nations and has been working in the field of crisis intervention/ areas of emotional and mental health since 1960. Aasra is the only help line in Navi Mumbai and started functioning from 13 September 1998.
It's September again and we, as co-representatives of suicide intervention services world-wide, try to focus attention of media / public in an effort to minimize suicides in society. WHO & IASP (International Association of Suicide Prevention) have designated September 10th as World Suicide Prevention Day and this day is commemorated all over the world by NGO's and
institutions working for the prevention of suicides.
Stop a Suicide, Today!,
"The tragedy of suicide is that it is a fatal, irreversible response to a reversible condition, usually depression, which can be treated," "Stop a Suicide, Today! is aimed at creating awareness of the need for non-critical understanding & compassion while dealing with a person undergoing suicidal crisis!
More than 70 percent of those who kill themselves typically express the wish to do so a week prior to committing suicide, according to a study conducted by the Hong Kong Jockey Club Center for Suicide Research and Prevention.
The best way to stop a suicide is by being a Friend to someone in distress.
By being a friend we mean; Caring, Concerned, Compassionate, Confidential, Empathethetic, Understanding, Responsive. SHOW YOU CARE!
World Suicide Prevention Day, organized by the International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) in collaboration with the World Health Organization (WHO), focuses on encouraging the public, communities, societies, individuals, professionals and volunteers to conduct activities on the day to promote and demonstrate joint responsibility for saving lives that would otherwise be lost to suicide.
As part of this endeavour,this year too, AASRA has organized a few activities and notable among them are the public rally on 10th September at 5.00 pm, beginning from Koparkhairane and passing through most of the nodes of Navi Mumbai. The objective of the rally is to stress the importance of 'world Suicide Prevention Day' and to create awareness of services that
could be availed of for prevention of suicide. Volunteers will interact with the public on the streets, distributing appropriate handouts and alerting them to the need to express feelings and talk openly about their problems.
The second program is a Seminar-debate scheduled for 13th September,2005 , Time: 5.30 to 9.00 pm at IWSA's ICICI Multi-purpose hall, IWSA Campus, Plot No 20, Sector 10A, Vashi, near Balaji Mandir, Navi Mumbai-400703. tel:
27653391.
Theme: 'Intolerance in Civil society'
The seminar will be addressed by Panelists comprising of leading personalities from differing backgrounds, namely; Journalist ,Educator, Mental Health professional and Human Rights activist.
The Seminar will be conducted in three segments- 'Intolerance and society', 'Intolerance relating to Human Rights issues' and the final segment will be 'Intolerance relating to suicide'. The seminar will be moderated by an efficient moderator.
The program will be interspersed with brief entertainment by talented unsung artists. The program is designed to be interactive, informative and will also be an occasion for civil expression. Questions and doubts raised by the public would be addressed by the esteemed panelists.
AASRA, takes this opportunity to invite one and all to both the programs. Your wholehearted support and attendance on these occasions will go a long way in focusing public attention on 'Suicide' as a social ill and could act as a catalyst to framing a public health policy effort to curb the alarming rise in suicides in our state and country.
For further details , please contact Johnson -9820466726/27546667
Thanking You,
Regards,
JThomas
Johnson Thomas
Director.
Befrienders India
(National Association of Suicide Prevention Centres in India)
C/o SNEHA, 7, Besant Road, Royapettah, Chennai - 600 014
www.befriendersindia.org
PRESS RELEASE
Another life lost every 40 seconds.
Suicide prevention - everyone's business.
Suicide means nearly one million deaths in the world a year. Another life lost - which could have been saved - every 40 seconds.
That's why 'Prevention of suicide is everybody's business' has been chosen as the theme for the September 10th World Suicide Prevention Day 2005.
Befrienders India supports World Suicide Prevention Day through its vision for a society where less people die by suicide.
And its beliefs are that being confidentially listened to and accepted without prejudice can alleviate despair and suicidal feelings.
Befrienders India has 9 centers in India and has 50,000 contacts with people in emotional distress each year. It has 500 trained volunteers and runs a unique service every day of the year.
Befrienders India is also part of Befrienders Worldwide which has more than 1,200 member centres in 61 countries staffed by almost 100,000 volunteers.
These volunteers work to give emotional help and reduce suicide.
Their work stretches from Zimbabwe to Japan, from Lithuania to Brazil, and the Befrienders Worldwide network shares information and also links with external contacts to share experience and demonstrate the role of volunteer suicide reduction centres.
Integral to this is the Befrienders Worldwide website - being up-dated in time for World Suicide Prevention Day that lists helplines around the world and information on suicide in 14 languages. The site - www.befrienders.org - attracts 60,000 visitors a month.
Befrienders India centers are linking any local initiatives or events they are holding around September 10th to World Suicide Prevention Day. Some have chosen to hold their own local media conferences linked with other agencies involved in the issue of suicide reduction, some are holding suicide awareness programme, while others are holding vigils.
Befrienders Worldwide branches have also chosen to mark World Suicide Prevention Day.
Befrienders India
(National Association of Suicide Prevention Centres in India)
C/o SNEHA, 7, Besant Road, Royapettah, Chennai - 600 014
www.befriendersindia.org
In India according to National Crime Records Bureau 110,417 people committed suicide in the year 2002, which is 1.8% more than compared to 2001., a suicide is committed every five minutes. Seven times that number attempt to take their lives and as for those who feel desperate and unable to cope, the number is mind boggling. More suicides occur between 18 and 45 - in other words in the most productive age group of our society.
Suicide estimates suggest fatalities worldwide could rise to 1.5 million by 2020. Suicide is a largely preventable public health problem, causing almost half of all violent deaths as well as economic costs in the billions of dollars, says the WHO.
In its third successful year, World Suicide Prevention Day, a collaboration between the International Association for Suicide Prevention IASP and the WHO is being held to focus attention and call for global action - see www.iasp.info
Dr Catherine Le Galès-Camus, WHO Assistant-Director General, Non-communicable Diseases and Mental Health said: "World-wide, more people die from suicide than from all homicides and wars combined. There is an urgent need for co-ordinated and intensified global action to prevent this needless toll. For every suicide death there are scores of family and
friends whose lives are devastated emotionally, socially and economically."
Among countries reporting suicide, the highest rates are found in Eastern Europe and the lowest are found mostly in Latin America, in Muslim countries and in a few of the Asian countries. There are estimated to be 10-20 times the number of deaths in failed suicide attempts, resulting in injury, emotional and mental trauma, although no reliable data is available on its
full extent.
Suicide rates tend to increase with age, but there has recently been an alarming increase in suicidal behaviours amongst young people aged 15 to 25 years old, worldwide. With the exception of rural China, more men than women commit suicide, although in most places more women than men attempt suicide.
Volunteer centres find much in common, with people's issues including relationships, bereavement, money problems, depression and general health worries - whether they are farmers in a poor district in India where crops have failed, or students in Japan under pressure to succeed.
Volunteers around the World work in providing emotional support to people in emotional crisis around the world. This group of people in emotional need is recognised by the WHO as increasing in size and needing improved responses.
For Befrienders India
Sd/-
(P.V.Sankaranarayanan)
Secretary
Befrienders India
(National Association of Suicide Prevention Centres in India)
C/o SNEHA, 7, Besant Road, Royapettah, Chennai - 600 014
www.befriendersindia.org
UK Statistics: www.samaritans.org provide statistics for the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland.
International Statistics: World Health Organisation - for international suicide statistics, including the most recent global statistics by country.
USA Statistics: American Association of Suicidology - for USA suicide statistics.
New Zealand Statistics: New Zealand Health Information Service - for NZ Statistics. There is also specific information about NZ youth suicide statistics.
Australia Statistics: Youth suicide in Australia
Canada Statistics: Canada Statistics Agency - for Canadian suicide statistics.
www.samaritans.org
Mind useful fact sheets on suicide statistics
University of Oxford Centre for suicide research
Office for National Statistics - trends in suicide rates
World Health Organisation
www.befrienders.org
www.iasp.info
http://www.lifeline.org.au/
http://www.lifeline.web.za/
http://www.ifotes.org
www.ltn08080.org
Notes to editors
Befrienders India is a registered society, founded in 1992, which offers emotional support to anyone in emotional distress through its centers in India. The centers are run entirely by volunteers and the services are totally free. Befrienders India's vision is for a society where fewer people die by suicide because people are able to share feelings of emotional distress openly without fear of being judged. It believes that offering people the opportunity to be listened to in confidence, and accepted without prejudice, can alleviate despair and suicidal feelings. It is the aim of Befrienders India to make emotional health a mainstream issue. The service is offered by 500 trained volunteers and is entirely dependent on voluntary support.
B E F R I E N D E R S I N D I A C E N T R E
(Caring for the Depressed, Desperate and the Suicidal)
President
Sumaitri, New Delhi 011 23710763 Daily 2 pm - 10 pm
Farrokh Jijina Lifeline, Kolkatta
033 24745886 Daily 10 am - 7 pm
Sahara - Mumbai. Sahara, Mumbai 022
23074351 Weekdays 3pm - 9pm,
Weekends 10am - 9pm
Aasra, Navi Mumbai 022
27546669 Daily 3 pm - 9 pm
Secretary Saath, Ahmedabad 079
26305544 Daily 1 pm - 7 pm
P.V. Sankaranarayanan Sneha, Chennai 044
28352345 Daily 8 am - 10 pm
Sneha - Chennai. Maitreyi, Pondicherry 0423
2339999 Daily 2 pm - 8 pm
Roshni, Secunderabad 040 55202000 Daily 11 am - 9 pm
Maithri - Kochi 0484 2396272 Daily 10 am - 8 pm
Suicide estimates suggest fatalities worldwide could rise to 1.5 million by 2020. Suicide is a largely preventable public health problem, causing almost half of all violent deaths as well as economic costs in the billions of dollars, says the WHO.
In its third successful year, World Suicide Prevention Day, a collaboration between the International Association for Suicide Prevention IASP and the WHO is being held to focus attention and call for global action - see www.iasp.info
Dr Catherine Le Galès-Camus, WHO Assistant-Director General, Non-communicable Diseases and Mental Health said: "World-wide, more people die from suicide than from all homicides and wars combined. There is an urgent need for co-ordinated and intensified global action to prevent this needless toll. For every suicide death there are scores of family and
friends whose lives are devastated emotionally, socially and economically."
Among countries reporting suicide, the highest rates are found in Eastern Europe and the lowest are found mostly in Latin America, in Muslim countries and in a few of the Asian countries. There are estimated to be 10-20 times the number of deaths in failed suicide attempts, resulting in injury, emotional and mental trauma, although no reliable data is available on its
full extent.
Suicide rates tend to increase with age, but there has recently been an alarming increase in suicidal behaviours amongst young people aged 15 to 25 years old, worldwide. With the exception of rural China, more men than women commit suicide, although in most places more women than men attempt suicide.
Suicide helpline volunteers worldwide will also be represented in Durban, South Africa at the World Suicide Congress hosted by the IASP.
The theme of the 2005 Congress is Scaling the Summit: Suicidal Behaviour in Diverse Cultures and it will be held from September 12thth to 16th.
Samaritans will be represented at the Congress by chief executive David King, chair Daphne Pullen and international officer Deborah Brodie.
Samaritans will present a joint plenary with volunteer partners the International Federation of Telephone Emergency Services (IFOTES) and Lifeline International.
The title of the plenary is 'Prevention or Promotion' and the objective is to illustrate the unique role of volunteer emotional support services and recognise their shift from focusing on suicide prevention to promotion of wider emotional health issues.
Volunteers work in very diverse cultures and regions. Whether they use telephones or talk under a tree in a remote village they have all come to the same conclusion. They have found that although starting out as suicide prevention groups an enormous part of their work has now shifted to supporting people who were not necessarily suicidal (although they may become so), but who are in severe distress.
Centres providing an email service often have no idea whether the person is emailing from 20 or 2,000 miles away, or what nationality they are - in all of these the key process of listening in a non-judgemental way remains the same.
Volunteer centres find much in common, with people's issues including relationships, bereavement, money problems, depression and general health worries - whether they are farmers in a poor district in India where crops have failed, or students in Japan under pressure to succeed.
Volunteers around the World work in providing emotional support to people in emotional crisis around the world. This group of people in emotional need is recognised by the WHO as increasing in size and needing improved responses.
UK Statistics: www.samaritans.org provide statistics for the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland.
International Statistics: World Health Organisation - for international suicide statistics, including the most recent global statistics by country.
USA Statistics: American Association of Suicidology - for USA suicide statistics.
New Zealand Statistics: New Zealand Health Information Service - for NZ Statistics. There is also specific information about NZ youth suicide statistics.
Australia Statistics: Youth suicide in Australia
Canada Statistics: Canada Statistics Agency - for Canadian suicide statistics.
www.samaritans.org
Mind useful fact sheets on suicide statistics University of Oxford Centre for suicide research Office for National Statistics - trends in suicide rates
World Health Organisation
www.befrienders.org
www.iasp.info
http://www.lifeline.org.au/
http://www.lifeline.web.za/
http://www.ifotes.org
www.ltn08080.org
Samaritans is a registered charity, founded in 1953, which offers 24-hour confidential emotional support to anyone in emotional distress. Samaritans' vision is for a society where fewer people die by suicide because people are able to share feelings of emotional distress openly without fear of being judged. Samaritans believes that offering people the opportunity to be listened to in confidence, and accepted without prejudice, can alleviate despair and suicidal feelings. It is the aim of Samaritans to make emotional health a mainstream issue. The service is offered by 17,600 trained volunteers and is entirely dependent on voluntary support.
Across the UK, you can call Samaritans on 08457 90 90 90 (1850 60 90 90 in the Republic of Ireland) for the price of a local call. You can also write to Samaritans at Chris, PO Box 9090, Stirling, FK8 2SA, send an e-mail to jo@samaritans.org or if you are deaf or hard of hearing use the single national minicom number 08457 90 91 92 (1850 60 90 91 in the Republic of
Ireland).
It is one of the beautiful compensations of this life that no one can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. --Charles Dudley Warner
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A4, TANWAR VIEW COOP. HSG. SOCIETY,
PLOT NO. 43, SECTOR -7, KOPARKHAIRANE,
NAVI MUMBAI 400 709, INDIA.
TEL: HELPLINE : 27546669(3PM TO 9PM)
OFFICE :27546667(3PM TO 9PM)koparkhairane, navi mumbai-400709
address has changed. please note- new adddress- 104, sunrise arcade, plot 100, sector 16 ,
website: www.aasra.info
Website: www.befriendersindia.org
email: aasrahelpline@yahoo.com
(REGISTERED WITH COMMISSIONER FOR CHARITABLE TRUSTS, GOVT. OF MAHARASHTRA,
REGN. NO. E 2047)
Re: Invitation for programs commemorating 'World Suicide prevention Day'
Dear Sir/Madam,
Aasra is a crisis intervention center for the lonely, distressed and suicidal. Aasra functions as a unit of Befrienders India / Samaritans and is registered as a Public Charity under the Bombay Charity Act, 1960(Registration No. E 2047). Befrienders India/Samaritans is recognised by The United Nations and has been working in the field of crisis intervention/ areas of emotional and mental health since 1960. Aasra is the only help line in Navi Mumbai and started functioning from 13 September 1998.
It's September again and we, as co-representatives of suicide intervention services world-wide, try to focus attention of media / public in an effort to minimize suicides in society. WHO & IASP (International Association of Suicide Prevention) have designated September 10th as World Suicide Prevention Day and this day is commemorated all over the world by NGO's and
institutions working for the prevention of suicides.
Stop a Suicide, Today!,
"The tragedy of suicide is that it is a fatal, irreversible response to a reversible condition, usually depression, which can be treated," "Stop a Suicide, Today! is aimed at creating awareness of the need for non-critical understanding & compassion while dealing with a person undergoing suicidal crisis!
More than 70 percent of those who kill themselves typically express the wish to do so a week prior to committing suicide, according to a study conducted by the Hong Kong Jockey Club Center for Suicide Research and Prevention.
The best way to stop a suicide is by being a Friend to someone in distress.
By being a friend we mean; Caring, Concerned, Compassionate, Confidential, Empathethetic, Understanding, Responsive. SHOW YOU CARE!
World Suicide Prevention Day, organized by the International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) in collaboration with the World Health Organization (WHO), focuses on encouraging the public, communities, societies, individuals, professionals and volunteers to conduct activities on the day to promote and demonstrate joint responsibility for saving lives that would otherwise be lost to suicide.
As part of this endeavour,this year too, AASRA has organized a few activities and notable among them are the public rally on 10th September at 5.00 pm, beginning from Koparkhairane and passing through most of the nodes of Navi Mumbai. The objective of the rally is to stress the importance of 'world Suicide Prevention Day' and to create awareness of services that
could be availed of for prevention of suicide. Volunteers will interact with the public on the streets, distributing appropriate handouts and alerting them to the need to express feelings and talk openly about their problems.
The second program is a Seminar-debate scheduled for 13th September,2005 , Time: 5.30 to 9.00 pm at IWSA's ICICI Multi-purpose hall, IWSA Campus, Plot No 20, Sector 10A, Vashi, near Balaji Mandir, Navi Mumbai-400703. tel:
27653391.
Theme: 'Intolerance in Civil society'
The seminar will be addressed by Panelists comprising of leading personalities from differing backgrounds, namely; Journalist ,Educator, Mental Health professional and Human Rights activist.
The Seminar will be conducted in three segments- 'Intolerance and society', 'Intolerance relating to Human Rights issues' and the final segment will be 'Intolerance relating to suicide'. The seminar will be moderated by an efficient moderator.
The program will be interspersed with brief entertainment by talented unsung artists. The program is designed to be interactive, informative and will also be an occasion for civil expression. Questions and doubts raised by the public would be addressed by the esteemed panelists.
AASRA, takes this opportunity to invite one and all to both the programs. Your wholehearted support and attendance on these occasions will go a long way in focusing public attention on 'Suicide' as a social ill and could act as a catalyst to framing a public health policy effort to curb the alarming rise in suicides in our state and country.
For further details , please contact Johnson -9820466726/27546667
Thanking You,
Regards,
JThomas
Johnson Thomas
Director.
Befrienders India
(National Association of Suicide Prevention Centres in India)
C/o SNEHA, 7, Besant Road, Royapettah, Chennai - 600 014
www.befriendersindia.org
PRESS RELEASE
Another life lost every 40 seconds.
Suicide prevention - everyone's business.
Suicide means nearly one million deaths in the world a year. Another life lost - which could have been saved - every 40 seconds.
That's why 'Prevention of suicide is everybody's business' has been chosen as the theme for the September 10th World Suicide Prevention Day 2005.
Befrienders India supports World Suicide Prevention Day through its vision for a society where less people die by suicide.
And its beliefs are that being confidentially listened to and accepted without prejudice can alleviate despair and suicidal feelings.
Befrienders India has 9 centers in India and has 50,000 contacts with people in emotional distress each year. It has 500 trained volunteers and runs a unique service every day of the year.
Befrienders India is also part of Befrienders Worldwide which has more than 1,200 member centres in 61 countries staffed by almost 100,000 volunteers.
These volunteers work to give emotional help and reduce suicide.
Their work stretches from Zimbabwe to Japan, from Lithuania to Brazil, and the Befrienders Worldwide network shares information and also links with external contacts to share experience and demonstrate the role of volunteer suicide reduction centres.
Integral to this is the Befrienders Worldwide website - being up-dated in time for World Suicide Prevention Day that lists helplines around the world and information on suicide in 14 languages. The site - www.befrienders.org - attracts 60,000 visitors a month.
Befrienders India centers are linking any local initiatives or events they are holding around September 10th to World Suicide Prevention Day. Some have chosen to hold their own local media conferences linked with other agencies involved in the issue of suicide reduction, some are holding suicide awareness programme, while others are holding vigils.
Befrienders Worldwide branches have also chosen to mark World Suicide Prevention Day.
Befrienders India
(National Association of Suicide Prevention Centres in India)
C/o SNEHA, 7, Besant Road, Royapettah, Chennai - 600 014
www.befriendersindia.org
In India according to National Crime Records Bureau 110,417 people committed suicide in the year 2002, which is 1.8% more than compared to 2001., a suicide is committed every five minutes. Seven times that number attempt to take their lives and as for those who feel desperate and unable to cope, the number is mind boggling. More suicides occur between 18 and 45 - in other words in the most productive age group of our society.
Suicide estimates suggest fatalities worldwide could rise to 1.5 million by 2020. Suicide is a largely preventable public health problem, causing almost half of all violent deaths as well as economic costs in the billions of dollars, says the WHO.
In its third successful year, World Suicide Prevention Day, a collaboration between the International Association for Suicide Prevention IASP and the WHO is being held to focus attention and call for global action - see www.iasp.info
Dr Catherine Le Galès-Camus, WHO Assistant-Director General, Non-communicable Diseases and Mental Health said: "World-wide, more people die from suicide than from all homicides and wars combined. There is an urgent need for co-ordinated and intensified global action to prevent this needless toll. For every suicide death there are scores of family and
friends whose lives are devastated emotionally, socially and economically."
Among countries reporting suicide, the highest rates are found in Eastern Europe and the lowest are found mostly in Latin America, in Muslim countries and in a few of the Asian countries. There are estimated to be 10-20 times the number of deaths in failed suicide attempts, resulting in injury, emotional and mental trauma, although no reliable data is available on its
full extent.
Suicide rates tend to increase with age, but there has recently been an alarming increase in suicidal behaviours amongst young people aged 15 to 25 years old, worldwide. With the exception of rural China, more men than women commit suicide, although in most places more women than men attempt suicide.
Volunteer centres find much in common, with people's issues including relationships, bereavement, money problems, depression and general health worries - whether they are farmers in a poor district in India where crops have failed, or students in Japan under pressure to succeed.
Volunteers around the World work in providing emotional support to people in emotional crisis around the world. This group of people in emotional need is recognised by the WHO as increasing in size and needing improved responses.
For Befrienders India
Sd/-
(P.V.Sankaranarayanan)
Secretary
Befrienders India
(National Association of Suicide Prevention Centres in India)
C/o SNEHA, 7, Besant Road, Royapettah, Chennai - 600 014
www.befriendersindia.org
UK Statistics: www.samaritans.org provide statistics for the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland.
International Statistics: World Health Organisation - for international suicide statistics, including the most recent global statistics by country.
USA Statistics: American Association of Suicidology - for USA suicide statistics.
New Zealand Statistics: New Zealand Health Information Service - for NZ Statistics. There is also specific information about NZ youth suicide statistics.
Australia Statistics: Youth suicide in Australia
Canada Statistics: Canada Statistics Agency - for Canadian suicide statistics.
www.samaritans.org
Mind useful fact sheets on suicide statistics
University of Oxford Centre for suicide research
Office for National Statistics - trends in suicide rates
World Health Organisation
www.befrienders.org
www.iasp.info
http://www.lifeline.org.au/
http://www.lifeline.web.za/
http://www.ifotes.org
www.ltn08080.org
Notes to editors
Befrienders India is a registered society, founded in 1992, which offers emotional support to anyone in emotional distress through its centers in India. The centers are run entirely by volunteers and the services are totally free. Befrienders India's vision is for a society where fewer people die by suicide because people are able to share feelings of emotional distress openly without fear of being judged. It believes that offering people the opportunity to be listened to in confidence, and accepted without prejudice, can alleviate despair and suicidal feelings. It is the aim of Befrienders India to make emotional health a mainstream issue. The service is offered by 500 trained volunteers and is entirely dependent on voluntary support.
B E F R I E N D E R S I N D I A C E N T R E
(Caring for the Depressed, Desperate and the Suicidal)
President
Sumaitri, New Delhi 011 23710763 Daily 2 pm - 10 pm
Farrokh Jijina Lifeline, Kolkatta
033 24745886 Daily 10 am - 7 pm
Sahara - Mumbai. Sahara, Mumbai 022
23074351 Weekdays 3pm - 9pm,
Weekends 10am - 9pm
Aasra, Navi Mumbai 022
27546669 Daily 3 pm - 9 pm
Secretary Saath, Ahmedabad 079
26305544 Daily 1 pm - 7 pm
P.V. Sankaranarayanan Sneha, Chennai 044
28352345 Daily 8 am - 10 pm
Sneha - Chennai. Maitreyi, Pondicherry 0423
2339999 Daily 2 pm - 8 pm
Roshni, Secunderabad 040 55202000 Daily 11 am - 9 pm
Maithri - Kochi 0484 2396272 Daily 10 am - 8 pm
Suicide estimates suggest fatalities worldwide could rise to 1.5 million by 2020. Suicide is a largely preventable public health problem, causing almost half of all violent deaths as well as economic costs in the billions of dollars, says the WHO.
In its third successful year, World Suicide Prevention Day, a collaboration between the International Association for Suicide Prevention IASP and the WHO is being held to focus attention and call for global action - see www.iasp.info
Dr Catherine Le Galès-Camus, WHO Assistant-Director General, Non-communicable Diseases and Mental Health said: "World-wide, more people die from suicide than from all homicides and wars combined. There is an urgent need for co-ordinated and intensified global action to prevent this needless toll. For every suicide death there are scores of family and
friends whose lives are devastated emotionally, socially and economically."
Among countries reporting suicide, the highest rates are found in Eastern Europe and the lowest are found mostly in Latin America, in Muslim countries and in a few of the Asian countries. There are estimated to be 10-20 times the number of deaths in failed suicide attempts, resulting in injury, emotional and mental trauma, although no reliable data is available on its
full extent.
Suicide rates tend to increase with age, but there has recently been an alarming increase in suicidal behaviours amongst young people aged 15 to 25 years old, worldwide. With the exception of rural China, more men than women commit suicide, although in most places more women than men attempt suicide.
Suicide helpline volunteers worldwide will also be represented in Durban, South Africa at the World Suicide Congress hosted by the IASP.
The theme of the 2005 Congress is Scaling the Summit: Suicidal Behaviour in Diverse Cultures and it will be held from September 12thth to 16th.
Samaritans will be represented at the Congress by chief executive David King, chair Daphne Pullen and international officer Deborah Brodie.
Samaritans will present a joint plenary with volunteer partners the International Federation of Telephone Emergency Services (IFOTES) and Lifeline International.
The title of the plenary is 'Prevention or Promotion' and the objective is to illustrate the unique role of volunteer emotional support services and recognise their shift from focusing on suicide prevention to promotion of wider emotional health issues.
Volunteers work in very diverse cultures and regions. Whether they use telephones or talk under a tree in a remote village they have all come to the same conclusion. They have found that although starting out as suicide prevention groups an enormous part of their work has now shifted to supporting people who were not necessarily suicidal (although they may become so), but who are in severe distress.
Centres providing an email service often have no idea whether the person is emailing from 20 or 2,000 miles away, or what nationality they are - in all of these the key process of listening in a non-judgemental way remains the same.
Volunteer centres find much in common, with people's issues including relationships, bereavement, money problems, depression and general health worries - whether they are farmers in a poor district in India where crops have failed, or students in Japan under pressure to succeed.
Volunteers around the World work in providing emotional support to people in emotional crisis around the world. This group of people in emotional need is recognised by the WHO as increasing in size and needing improved responses.
UK Statistics: www.samaritans.org provide statistics for the United Kingdom and the Republic of Ireland.
International Statistics: World Health Organisation - for international suicide statistics, including the most recent global statistics by country.
USA Statistics: American Association of Suicidology - for USA suicide statistics.
New Zealand Statistics: New Zealand Health Information Service - for NZ Statistics. There is also specific information about NZ youth suicide statistics.
Australia Statistics: Youth suicide in Australia
Canada Statistics: Canada Statistics Agency - for Canadian suicide statistics.
www.samaritans.org
Mind useful fact sheets on suicide statistics University of Oxford Centre for suicide research Office for National Statistics - trends in suicide rates
World Health Organisation
www.befrienders.org
www.iasp.info
http://www.lifeline.org.au/
http://www.lifeline.web.za/
http://www.ifotes.org
www.ltn08080.org
Samaritans is a registered charity, founded in 1953, which offers 24-hour confidential emotional support to anyone in emotional distress. Samaritans' vision is for a society where fewer people die by suicide because people are able to share feelings of emotional distress openly without fear of being judged. Samaritans believes that offering people the opportunity to be listened to in confidence, and accepted without prejudice, can alleviate despair and suicidal feelings. It is the aim of Samaritans to make emotional health a mainstream issue. The service is offered by 17,600 trained volunteers and is entirely dependent on voluntary support.
Across the UK, you can call Samaritans on 08457 90 90 90 (1850 60 90 90 in the Republic of Ireland) for the price of a local call. You can also write to Samaritans at Chris, PO Box 9090, Stirling, FK8 2SA, send an e-mail to jo@samaritans.org or if you are deaf or hard of hearing use the single national minicom number 08457 90 91 92 (1850 60 90 91 in the Republic of
Ireland).
It is one of the beautiful compensations of this life that no one can sincerely try to help another without helping himself. --Charles Dudley Warner
Aruna's sister Shata Nayak refuses to visit her as she can't bear to see her pain- Mumbai Mirror
I don’t visit Aruna. I can’t see her in pain
Shanta Nayak, nurse Aruna Shanbaug's 75-yr-old sister, on euthanasia and why the family has left her to KEM's care
Lata Mishra
Posted On Friday, March 11, 2011 at 02:40:02 AM
Shanta Vasudev Nayak, the 75-year-old sister of Aruna Shanbaug, the KEM nurse lying in a vegetative state for over 30 years and who is now at the centre of a raging euthanasia debate, does not want her ‘little Aruna’ to be put to sleep.
While Nayak, a widow who lives in a tiny one-room house in Parel with her divorcee daughter, decided to stay away from the court drama around her sister’s life despite receiving letters from KEM hospital to depose in the case, she chokes when she says Aruna should be allowed to live her full life.
This is the first time anybody from Aruna’s family has spoken in public on the euthanasia plea and Nayak’s opinion is consistent with the court’s decision to let Aruna continue in the care of KEM staff.
“Initially we felt that she should be put to sleep. She did not recognise anybody and had no control over her body and mind. But now we feel otherwise. She has the right to live,” she said.
Nayak admitted that she received at least three letters from KEM asking her to appear in the court, but decided to not get involved because at her age it all seemed too much to bother. There was also the fear that any contact with the hospital could renew their demand that she take her home.
Shanta Nayak at her Lower Parel house on Thursday
A typo in spelling her name -- it was spelt as Shanta Vasant Hayal -- was used by her to not accept the letters. “I knew the letters were meant for me. I knew they would be something to do with Aruna. But on all three occasions, I told the postman that nobody by this name stayed here. We are barely surviving on what my daughter Mangala, a shop attendant, earns. We have no time or energy to get into anything else,” she said.
Nayak and Mangala, however, kept track of the trial through newspapers and television. There was a small celebration in their Nehru Nagar Chawl near Peninsula Corporate Park when the court ruled in favour of keeping Aruna live.
Nayak claimed that for 15 years after the November 27, 1973, sexual assault on Aruna by a ward boy that left her bed-ridden for life, she visited her in hospital regularly and so did Aruna's eldest brother, Balkrishna Shanbaug, a farmer in Haldipur in Karnataka.
The hospital, however, denied that Nayak or any other member of the family visited Aruna. KEM dean Dr Sanjay Oak also denied that Aruna's family was ever asked to pay for her hospital stay.
The Shanbaug family in Haldipur in Karnataka had six brothers and three sisters. Aruna was the youngest. Nayak was 15 when she got married and came to Mumbai. Aruna followed her after completing her nursing course and got a job at KEM. “While Aruna stayed in the hostel, she would often come to meet us,” Shanta recalled.
Call it fate's cruel joke, just months before the brutal attack by the ward boy, with whom she had a minor tiff, Aruna fell in love with Dr Sandeep Sardesai, a neuro-surgeon whom she would help in the operation theatre.
After the two families agreed to the match, Aruna moved in with her sister to save up for the wedding. It was November 1, 1973. “She was a happy go lucky girl. She was also the prettiest in the family. We liked having her around.” Nayak said.
On November 27, 1973, the day she was raped and left to die in the basement, Nayak remembers Aruna leaving from home early. “She was called in to work because there were cases of food poisoning in the city. She left in a hurry. Before leaving, she told me that she had left some clothes in a bucket for washing and that she would return and finish washing them.”
Aruna, however, did not return at her appointed hour. “We did get worried, but assumed she must have got caught in some emergency cases. It was only the next day that one of her colleagues came home and told us that Aruna was unwell. We went to the hospital and found that she was badly hurt and unconscious,” she said.
Aruna Shanbaug (left) and her sister Shanta Vasudev Nayak
It was much later in the day that Nayak and others of family were told what Aruna had been through and that she may never walk or talk again.
Nayak said Dr Sardesai visited Aruna every day and took care of her. “Dr Sardesai did not marry for 10 years after the incident. And when he did, it was under tremendous pressure from the family.”
Over the years, Nayak said, she did not see any change in Aruna's condition. “She would lie in foetal position all the time. She did not recognise us,” she said.
A few years later, Aruna was shifted from a private room at KEM to Sarvoday Hospital in Ghatkopar. That's when Nayak's visits to the hospital became less frequent. “Later, when nurses at KEM protested, Aruna was brought back.
At this juncture, hospital authorities started pressurising us to take her home. I was simply in no position to take care of Aruna,” said Nayak.
Around this time, Nayak's husband fell ill and was bed-ridden for four years. Her daughters and son got married. “With hospital putting pressure on me to take Aruna home and my husband bed-ridden, I thought it was best if I stopped going to meet Aruna,” she said.
Even now she has no intention of ever going back to the hospital to meet her sister. “Even my brother, who is the head of the family, has stopped going. What is the point in going there? But I sure want her to live for as long as she can.
More than anything else, I cannot stand the sight of her being in pain,” Nayak said, wiping tears with her saree's pallu.
Shanta Nayak, nurse Aruna Shanbaug's 75-yr-old sister, on euthanasia and why the family has left her to KEM's care
Lata Mishra
Posted On Friday, March 11, 2011 at 02:40:02 AM
Shanta Vasudev Nayak, the 75-year-old sister of Aruna Shanbaug, the KEM nurse lying in a vegetative state for over 30 years and who is now at the centre of a raging euthanasia debate, does not want her ‘little Aruna’ to be put to sleep.
While Nayak, a widow who lives in a tiny one-room house in Parel with her divorcee daughter, decided to stay away from the court drama around her sister’s life despite receiving letters from KEM hospital to depose in the case, she chokes when she says Aruna should be allowed to live her full life.
This is the first time anybody from Aruna’s family has spoken in public on the euthanasia plea and Nayak’s opinion is consistent with the court’s decision to let Aruna continue in the care of KEM staff.
“Initially we felt that she should be put to sleep. She did not recognise anybody and had no control over her body and mind. But now we feel otherwise. She has the right to live,” she said.
Nayak admitted that she received at least three letters from KEM asking her to appear in the court, but decided to not get involved because at her age it all seemed too much to bother. There was also the fear that any contact with the hospital could renew their demand that she take her home.
Shanta Nayak at her Lower Parel house on Thursday
A typo in spelling her name -- it was spelt as Shanta Vasant Hayal -- was used by her to not accept the letters. “I knew the letters were meant for me. I knew they would be something to do with Aruna. But on all three occasions, I told the postman that nobody by this name stayed here. We are barely surviving on what my daughter Mangala, a shop attendant, earns. We have no time or energy to get into anything else,” she said.
Nayak and Mangala, however, kept track of the trial through newspapers and television. There was a small celebration in their Nehru Nagar Chawl near Peninsula Corporate Park when the court ruled in favour of keeping Aruna live.
Nayak claimed that for 15 years after the November 27, 1973, sexual assault on Aruna by a ward boy that left her bed-ridden for life, she visited her in hospital regularly and so did Aruna's eldest brother, Balkrishna Shanbaug, a farmer in Haldipur in Karnataka.
The hospital, however, denied that Nayak or any other member of the family visited Aruna. KEM dean Dr Sanjay Oak also denied that Aruna's family was ever asked to pay for her hospital stay.
The Shanbaug family in Haldipur in Karnataka had six brothers and three sisters. Aruna was the youngest. Nayak was 15 when she got married and came to Mumbai. Aruna followed her after completing her nursing course and got a job at KEM. “While Aruna stayed in the hostel, she would often come to meet us,” Shanta recalled.
Call it fate's cruel joke, just months before the brutal attack by the ward boy, with whom she had a minor tiff, Aruna fell in love with Dr Sandeep Sardesai, a neuro-surgeon whom she would help in the operation theatre.
After the two families agreed to the match, Aruna moved in with her sister to save up for the wedding. It was November 1, 1973. “She was a happy go lucky girl. She was also the prettiest in the family. We liked having her around.” Nayak said.
On November 27, 1973, the day she was raped and left to die in the basement, Nayak remembers Aruna leaving from home early. “She was called in to work because there were cases of food poisoning in the city. She left in a hurry. Before leaving, she told me that she had left some clothes in a bucket for washing and that she would return and finish washing them.”
Aruna, however, did not return at her appointed hour. “We did get worried, but assumed she must have got caught in some emergency cases. It was only the next day that one of her colleagues came home and told us that Aruna was unwell. We went to the hospital and found that she was badly hurt and unconscious,” she said.
Aruna Shanbaug (left) and her sister Shanta Vasudev Nayak
It was much later in the day that Nayak and others of family were told what Aruna had been through and that she may never walk or talk again.
Nayak said Dr Sardesai visited Aruna every day and took care of her. “Dr Sardesai did not marry for 10 years after the incident. And when he did, it was under tremendous pressure from the family.”
Over the years, Nayak said, she did not see any change in Aruna's condition. “She would lie in foetal position all the time. She did not recognise us,” she said.
A few years later, Aruna was shifted from a private room at KEM to Sarvoday Hospital in Ghatkopar. That's when Nayak's visits to the hospital became less frequent. “Later, when nurses at KEM protested, Aruna was brought back.
At this juncture, hospital authorities started pressurising us to take her home. I was simply in no position to take care of Aruna,” said Nayak.
Around this time, Nayak's husband fell ill and was bed-ridden for four years. Her daughters and son got married. “With hospital putting pressure on me to take Aruna home and my husband bed-ridden, I thought it was best if I stopped going to meet Aruna,” she said.
Even now she has no intention of ever going back to the hospital to meet her sister. “Even my brother, who is the head of the family, has stopped going. What is the point in going there? But I sure want her to live for as long as she can.
More than anything else, I cannot stand the sight of her being in pain,” Nayak said, wiping tears with her saree's pallu.
Nidhi's husband traumatised by death of wife, kids-T.O.I
‘Nidhi’s husband is traumatized by death of wife, kids’
Nitasha Natu, TNN | Mar 11, 2011, 12.53am IST
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MUMBAI: The parents of college lecturer Nidhi Gupta are yet to press charges against anyone in connection with her death. Nidhi had flung her two kids, Gaurav (6) and Mahika (3), before jumping to death from the 19th storey of her building on Tuesday. Her father, Bimal Jalan, told the media that she was mentally tortured by her husband and in-laws. But investigators have not concluded any motive yet.
People close to the Gupta's said Nidhi's husband, Pawan, is traumatized after the incident and is unable to come to terms with his kids' deaths. "One of us has to constantly keep an eye on him. We fear he might hurt himself if left alone," said a relative. "Pawan was close to his kids. Whenever he speaks about them, he says they are unwell," the relative said.
Pawan assists his father and elder brother, Rakesh, in their garment business. The police have recorded his statement along with that of his parents, brother and sister-in-law. The Guptas also plan to take legal advice in the matter.
Meanwhile on Wednesday, the last rites of Nidhi and her kids were conducted at her father's residence, for which the Guptas were present. Pawan, along with Nidhi's brother, performed the funeral. Relatives said that there was tension between the Guptas and Jalans. Nidhi's father will record his statement later this week. He could not visit the police station on Thursday as he had organized a prayer meet in memory of his daughter and grand-children
Nitasha Natu, TNN | Mar 11, 2011, 12.53am IST
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Tags:Nidhi Gupta|Crime in Mumbai
MUMBAI: The parents of college lecturer Nidhi Gupta are yet to press charges against anyone in connection with her death. Nidhi had flung her two kids, Gaurav (6) and Mahika (3), before jumping to death from the 19th storey of her building on Tuesday. Her father, Bimal Jalan, told the media that she was mentally tortured by her husband and in-laws. But investigators have not concluded any motive yet.
People close to the Gupta's said Nidhi's husband, Pawan, is traumatized after the incident and is unable to come to terms with his kids' deaths. "One of us has to constantly keep an eye on him. We fear he might hurt himself if left alone," said a relative. "Pawan was close to his kids. Whenever he speaks about them, he says they are unwell," the relative said.
Pawan assists his father and elder brother, Rakesh, in their garment business. The police have recorded his statement along with that of his parents, brother and sister-in-law. The Guptas also plan to take legal advice in the matter.
Meanwhile on Wednesday, the last rites of Nidhi and her kids were conducted at her father's residence, for which the Guptas were present. Pawan, along with Nidhi's brother, performed the funeral. Relatives said that there was tension between the Guptas and Jalans. Nidhi's father will record his statement later this week. He could not visit the police station on Thursday as he had organized a prayer meet in memory of his daughter and grand-children
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